Attracting a Russian woman - Fate and destiny in Russian culture
When it comes to Russian women, you should drop and get rid of some old-fashioned and outdated temptation and seduction techniques as pickup lines and buying a drink and focus your attention on who you actually are. And if you did not realize what we meant, here is a hint: You are a man and the best way to attract attention of a Russian woman is to be yourself. These beautiful women do not need any too (heavy) approach techniques … just your respect and masculinity (Unfortunately these features are often underestimated and not considered as important).
Here we gathered a list of features that Russian women find excellent. But do not think it will make you a man of their dreams. Though no matter what we indicated below … your main quality and characteristics are your respectful approach and inner beauty.
1- We would be lying if we didn’t mention the exterior and it goes like this: (Russian women don’t care how you look … just be yourself and act chivalrously, which is only s half true. Definitely Russian women do not care that much as American, Canadian and Australian women do, because, Russian women have lower beauty norms and standards. Nevertheless, you should look good because it is an indication of your life success and self-esteem. In addition, due to Russian women’s family-oriented mindsets, they see every man they like as a possible father of their children. Remember, if you look unpleasant, your chances to win a heart of a Russian woman is very low.
2- Most men are interested why Russian women are so obsessed with foreign men. Are Russian men that disgusting and hideous? That is impossible because women from Russia are very nice. Some women in our agency told us that there were the same issue with every man from Russia they encountered with … they all didn’t appear to care about their wives and girlfriends. Our advice is: Treat your Russian woman with care and respect because she deserves it. This kind of approach will also show that you are going to be a kind and caring father, which is very important for any Russian woman.
3- Have you heard that Russian women think that men’s brains are the sexiest organ? Of course Russian women didn’t invent this but they have become proficient in distinguishing the cleverest men of all. And they actually prefer clever men to muscular men … even if a mix would work the best). So starting from the capability of keeping the talk going and up to profession success, happy marriage and family life. Also keep in mind that these women are clever enough to recognize you are just making an impression on them instead of actually being clever. Russian women believe that the collaboration of wisdom, knowledge and erudition very attractive. So instead of showing off your biceps and tasteless jokes, give a Russian woman you are interested in a chance to talk to an interesting and intelligent man who you truly are.
4- You have most likely heard that Russian women are generally looking for honest men for marriage and starting a family with. Some men believe it and some don’t. But most men were lucky enough to meet Russian women that really wanted to be wives and mothers. Russian women are family-oriented. They seek men that serious, family oriented and are ready for marriage. You can definitely take advantage of it and show how much you love children, appreciate marriage and family values. Most of Russian women will not feel happy and complete until they give birth to a child. So be sure to talk about your family, tell her about your childhood, ask her about her childhood memories … it will 100% work.
Fate and destiny in Russian culture
The idea of fate pre-determining everything in a Russian woman’s life is very usual. All Russian women want to feel that when they meet a man, it was the fate that brought him to them, than their own endeavors and efforts. The same belief makes Russian women accept a passive approach in relationships, expecting that the man should be the one trying to move the relationship forward.
- “If it was destined to happen, it will happen“, this is what most Russian women like to believe.
- “You can’t go against fate“, is another common belief.
Remember the younger is the woman, the more destiny-oriented, amorous and romantic are her dreams.
Russian women believe in self-improvement and personal development, which are supposed to help them to find a good husband and fulfill their fate (be a wife and a mother). Being career-orientated, which many Russian girls in fact are, is frown upon in Russia. A girl is supposed to be happy being a wife and a mother. That is her calling and her fate.
Quotes from the web:
- How to perfectly attract a Russian woman? There probably aren't any steps. If there is a specific Russian woman in sight, show her things she probably has never seen before. You may have heard that many times but if she is a very attractive, sexy and beautiful woman, it is clear that a lot of men have tried hooking up with her. In this case, try to be a friend. She may not have a lot of those. After she is comfortable talking to you move in.
- To attract a Russian woman Be nice. Be respectful. Try to be her friend first. Look her in the eye when talking (makes her feel like she has your attention), compliment her (but not too much, then you just look desperate and pathetic), remember little things that others usually wouldn’t.
- Approaching a Russian woman this is important, as first impressions are huge (and, unfortunately, Russian women are relatively judgmental ladies). When you first meet a Russian woman, just say what's up and shoot the breeze with her. Be charming, flirtatious, and funny. Most importantly, don't act like she is the hottest thing you have seen. Skip the "sweet boy" comments regarding how beautiful her eyes are or how you could not help but notice how attractive and gorgeous she was. You must display self-assurance and confidence. Act like you have been here before, and she will be interested.
- Here are a few good tips that help some men
1- Act like you do not care. Many beautiful Russian women get hit on frequently during a normal day and are used to being to center of men’s attention. But if you approach a beautiful Russian woman and don't seem to pay much attention to her, this will make her interested.
2- Be funny. You hear this all the time, Russian women love men with a good sense of humor. Just don't be vulgar and corny.
3- Use body language. Russian women are masters of reading men. They get very good at finding out men level of self-confidence just by watching men’s facial gestures and hands. Hold your head up, make eye contact with her and puff your chest slightly.