Good Russian girls and bad Russian girls
There are some Russian girls who are positive in every way. They are tidy and punctual; they will never quarrel and will always behave properly. However, there is another type of girls, which is precisely the opposite of the first one. These (bad Russian girls) are quick-tempered and disobedient and will always conduct both in spite of the public opinion and common sense. Where are the roots of the good and the bad behavior? How should one act establishing relationships with the girls like that?
French psychologists distinguish a lot of stages and phases of personality development. Having no need to get into particulars, we can assemble them into three general periods, which are childhood, adolescence and adulthood.
A child has several main tasks. He or she has to grow up, eat well and obey the mother. Behavioral pattern of a "good girl" is nothing else but detention at the stage of puerility. Seemingly, there is no reason to be tragic about it, as soon as a "good Russian girl" should make an ideal wife. She will keep the house well, feed the children, iron your shirts and will hardly betray her husband. But there is a particular problem in the relationships with suchlike (bad) girls. A good girl has a deep affection for her parents and especially her mother. Since her early years she would always avoid upsetting her mother and contradicting her words in any matters. If the ideas of her husband and her mother differ even a little bit, such a Russian girl will always take a side with her mother. This is the type of marriage that causes notorious animosity between the husband and his mother-in-law, which provides one of the most popular subjects for Russian jokes.
Intermediate period of adolescence is the time to reject infantile habits. A teenager conducts just the opposite his or her parents or other adults would like him or her to do, as long as the adults are considered to follow old-fashioned rules and norms. In due course, such a behavior will be put away, but there are some people who keep residing in the juvenile age for all their life-time. This behavioral pattern is one of the "bad girl". The slightest attempts to make such a girl improve her conduct result in a fury and influence her behavior all the more so badly, since they are supposed to threaten her personal freedom. Bad girls often abuse alcohol and drugs and cheat their husbands with every second man. But the thing is they do it not for their lust, but for the sense of contradiction.
One may ask us what good Russian girls are better to marry, either the bad or the good. Our answer is neither the former, nor the latter! You should marry only adult girls. However, if the girl falls in love with a man and appears willing to follow him, he is quite able to help her to grow up.
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- What is the attitude of the Russian girl if I want to move to Russia to marry and to live with her?
Russian girls, and especially those of them who are not so young, want to marry a foreigner for some other reasons besides a chance to move abroad. Nowadays Russian men are not intended to trouble themselves with family; that is why, sick and tired of solitude, girls from Russia seek for a foreign husband. Over the years spent in a particular environment, a human becomes more and more attached to it, thus you can find a lot of women who will gladly accept your proposal to live with them in Russia. Prices for main goods and services there are at least five times less than in the West. Several thousands of dollars a month will be just enough to rent a house and keep your family. You already know a little bit of Russian language and culture, thus you are not supposed to have any problems with adaptation, and all the more so if you do not mean to work at your new place. Moreover, there will be a loving person beside you who will certainly help you to manage with the changes.